The Cunningham Family

Friday Follow

2010-09-24T10:01:00.000-05:00

Do you know how many blog hops are out there??? I found 16 today! I am cleaning up my google reader and the best way to find new blogs, is to jump on the bandwagon and follow some random people. Sometimes you find your bloggy soul mate...that person who thinks like you do, or has the same kind of crazy life you do and can commiserate! So take a chance, pick one, pick several...be BOLD and pick them ALL and go find a new bloggy friend!

A Long Time Coming...

2010-09-22T19:53:00.000-05:00

There are moments as parents that it all makes sense. That all the craziness, stress, and worry just melt away, and you are blindsided with pure joy.
That happened to me last night at dinner.
My sweet 3 year old is speech delayed. It's not something we advertise, but its noticeable. We are currently in therapy for it and he has been making amazing progress. We work on all kinds of things at home, eye contact, structured play, and words. We read like its going out of style, we say silly phrases over and over, and the only TV he is allowed to watch on weeknights has to be something that will enrich his mind. We allow silly stuff on the weekend, because everyone needs a break.
But last night at dinner, he said the most amazing thing, the thing I have been waiting to hear in his precious little boy voice since the day that he was born.
"I Love Momma."
I wept. I had to leave the dinner table so he didn't think that he had done anything wrong. I was so overcome with joy that I was almost sobbing. Some parents take those little words for granted, they hear them everyday and have for years. But this was the first time that my son was able to articulate that feeling. I know he loves me, we are big on hugs and kisses at my house. In the bathtub the "momma" duck will give kisses to the "baby" duck. There is no question that he feels the love that we have for him daily.

And now, there is no question in my mind, that that love is reciprocated.
I love momma is the sweetest phrase in the world.

You might have a preschooler if...

2010-09-14T13:20:00.000-05:00

These are funny things that I find myself doing...and I wonder if I am the only one. So to follow the funny Jeff Foxworth, You might have a preschooler if...

You find yourself randomly quoting Dr Suess books to yourself... " The sun did not shine it was too wet to play" I said this the other afternoon when it was raining.

You look at containers before you put them in the garbage/recycling bin, thinking how you could make them into a craft project.

You are guilty of preparing two seperate meals...one for you and the hubby, and one for the toddler who is on a perpetual food strike. I put bits of what we are having on his plate, but I know he isn't going to eat it. Ugh!

You get excited when the Michael's and JoAnn's circulars come out and there are free or cheap projects coming to the store.

Last week at Michael's they had a handprint painting to welcome your new baby from the sibling. All you had to purchase was the 12x12 canvas (which was $8, but bogo, so we bought 4 for $16).

We had an assembly line going since we were the only people to show up! Awesome!

Randy and Bailey did most of the work, but we had 4 canvas paintings just in time for Grandparent's Day!

We actually modified the picture by adding William's handprint in addition to Bailey's, as the smaller fish in the pond. In a word...Precious!

So these are the things that go on in my world...Sound familiar?

Take me out to the Ballgame~

2010-08-26T10:39:00.000-05:00

So while my step son, Jared was down for a quick visit, we all went to the ballpark to see the Montgomery Biscuits play a game. As a Christmas present for my super hard to buy for hubby, I was inspired to get him season tickets to the Biscuits. Its not that he is a Biscuits fan, but he is a HUGE baseball fan. Bailey and William better hurry up and grow so he can enroll them in Little League (pray that they like the sport :)

Another cool thing about the night we planned to go...it was Country night (08/06), and they had pony rides for the little ones. Bailey LOVED this little feature!

I am too crazy about my sweet Bailey to let him ride the pony solo just yet, so I walked around and around and around with him....for two turns!

Randy's parents came to town to see the boys and joined us for the game.

And of course we have to show you how little William enjoyed the game...

Its always a risk taking Bailey and William to something like this, you never know how they will behave, or how the weather is going to hold up. Bailey was GREAT, Will slept and nursed for most of the game, and the weather cooperated until the 7th inning. Once the rain came...and it was really a downpour, we packed it in and headed home, it was after 9pm and Bailey was tired (OK...I was tired too!) But see the slump :)

To Infinity and Beyond! A Costume Review

2010-08-12T13:30:00.004-05:00

I was contacted by Costume Super Center and asked if I would like the opportunity to review one of their costumes. Being the mom of a toddler who LOVES pretend play, I jumped at the chance! I am not being compensated for this review, the only catch was that I write an honest review of a complimentary costume...so here goes!

I started searching in kids Halloween costumes...there was so much to choose from! They have Dr Suess, Disney, and even Pixar characters. I loved that the site is super easy to browse and the search function pulls up great options. I made my way to toddler costumes where I hit the jackpot! Bailey is all about Buzz Lightyear and anything having to do with rockets and space. So when I found the Buzz Lightyear Toddler Costume I called my husband and told him all about this opportunity.

You know how sometimes, you order something, and the quality is not what it should be, or it looks completely different from the picture on the package. I am happy to say that this was not the case with the costume. It looks just like the packaging and the picture on the website.

We received the shipment of the costume pretty fast, I was thrilled that the entire ordering/shipping of the costume was so easy and timely. According to the website if you order by 3pm EST (M-F) it ships out that same day.

When we arrived home from daycare, I asked Bailey if he wanted to try on a fun dress up costume. I showed him that it was Buzz Lightyear, and he got so excited! It was a 3T/4T size, which is perfect because he is right in between those sizes. As you can see its a little snug, but he is tall and the length is perfect. The leg covers will also cover his shoes, so if another child was taller than he is, they would still be pergectly covered up.

The costume is handwashable...which is good because I couldn't get it off of him until bath time. Thats right folks...he ate dinner as Buzz. Got pink yogurt all over the sleeves and top. I just soaked it and soaped it and it all came right out.

Thank you so much for the opportunity to test out this great costume! You will hear from me soon...because we will need to order the infant alien costume for the baby...so we can trick or treat together. I can't wait!

The only negative thing I can say is that its hard to remove from the child who has fallen in love with it!

The Arrival

2010-06-08T09:05:00.001-05:00

I have been absent...here is my excuse.

We delivered William Michael by scheduled c-section on Tuesday, June 8th at 0700. He weighed in at a lovely 8 pounds, 7 ounces, and stretched 20.25 inches.

My parents were kind enough to keep Bailey the night before and take him to daycare that morning. Then they joined Randy's parents in the waiting room.

My procedure went well. We were surrounded by my fantastic Dr and some really great nurses, they helped me feel comfortable for the duration. I remember at some point of the surgery thinking, wow, this nurse standing behind me stroking mt hair is really going above and beyond...it was so soothing at the time. Turns out, that was my wonderful husband. I have said it before and I am sure I will say it again, he is my rock. He comforts me, sometimes even when I am not aware that I need it.

Everything moved pretty quick after William was born, and before I knew it, he and Randy were off to the nursery, and they finished sewing me up and took me to recovery. The hospital has a new way of doing things, so Randy and William rejoined me in the recovery room for what they call "Bonding Time" I guess some study shows that its better for baby to spend 30-60 minutes with Mom skin to skin before rushing off to be bathed, medicated, have blood drawn and whatever else they do. It lowers the stress level of the baby...really? They had to do a study for that?

So there is a reason for that freaked out expression. This is Bailey meeting William for the first time & he just grabbed him to plant a big kiss on his new little brother. Bailey is so affectionate with William, he is forever giving him hugs and kisses.

Look at those fat rolls!

Maternity Photos

2010-06-02T09:44:00.000-05:00

I had an opportunity to have some maternity photos taken by the very talented Jeanette Monplaisir of JM Photography. She is just starting out in the world of photography and let me tell you, this young lady has some seious talent.

We went to have belly shots taken when I as 36 weeks pregnant with Bailey and we were disappointed. We went to Portrait Innovations and out of the 60 shots that were taken there were only 6 or so that we liked. My husband is not a big fan of having his picture taken anyway...so needless to say, none were purchased and we did not return to have more pictures taken.

This time I didn't tell my husband. These are going to be a suprise present for Father's Day. So I kept Bailey out of daycare for a morning and we met Jeanette at Blount Cultural Park right there at the Alabama Shakesphere Festival. My friend Shannon and her mom came by to help out with Bailey so we could do pictures of just me and pictures of the two of us. (Thank you Shannon & Mrs Susan! This would not have been possible without your help!)

We started out by the pond, chasing geese.

Then headed over to the stone wall...

I really loved the way she edited these, some have that great shadowy quality and then to have them in black and white is such a great contrast.

After the wall, we headed over to ASF to the gardens, but they were closed, so we took advantage of this great area, there was lots of greenery and some shade!

Look at that big belly! I am telling you, there is a 10 pound baby in there!

I saw a similar shot like this on someone's blog a while back, and I mentioned it to Jeanette and she was happy to help me create something similar.

More shots of the big belly :0) I did manage to fit my wedding rings on for these pictures, and it only took a small miracle to get them off. Swollen fingers are the greatest!

See those flushed cheeks! That sweet boy was playing hard!

So overall I am THRILLED with the way these pictures turned out. Jeanette did an amazing job. I will have to call her and sweet talk her into doing some newborn pictures of William once he arrives. Hiring a photographer to do family pictures like this is always a challenge. I really think that it is important to have that perfect blend of skill and chemistry, and Jeanette has this lovely personality, and she was SO very patient with Bailey, who is a bundle of energy.

And in the meantime...don't tell my husband these pictures are on the blog...you'll ruin the suprise!

A trip to remember...Belize

2010-05-14T11:07:00.002-05:00

Let me tell you a story...

A long, long time ago...in 2002, I met this man.

We hit it off and had the best time together.

I met all his friends, he met all of mine, he met my family, I met his son. We went on trips together, fun things like Mobile, AL, beaches, Gaitlinburg, TN, Louisville, KY, Indianapolis, IN, Atlanta, GA, and everywhere in between. Over time, this man became my best friend, my confidant, my advisor.

In 2006, we were surprised to find out that this little bundle was on the way. We were completely unprepared for the changes this little man brought to our life. We learned to depend on each other even more for everyday things. I told a friend of mine recently that true love, is not flowers and candlelight. Its taking care of a sick child, mopping up vomit at 3am, and holding each other when you are both exhausted and sleep deprived, and comforting each other even as you try to comfort your little one.

I have said it before, I will say it again I am sure. We do things backwards here. Christmas of 2008 arrived, and tucked under the tree was this little gem... No diamond??? No. This man of mine knows that my absolute favorite gemstone is the garnet. So when he couldn't find a ring that he liked, he went to a local jeweler and had this lovely ring custom made for me. When we broke the news to family and friends, the reaction was pretty much the same. "Wow, that's great!" and "Its about time!" (I know...family and friends can get away with that blunt honesty.)

So you realize that once you actually get engaged, its time to start thinking of WHERE and WHEN. Well...since we met in October, I thought we could just get married on our anniversary. That man looked at me and asked why I wanted to wait so long. ARE YOU KIDDING ME!?!?!? It takes you 6 yrs to propose and you want to know why I am waiting??? Men...I just don't understand the thought process.

So we decided the beach, then we decided Las Vegas. And I started pricing both trips. Where could we have a fantastic vacation, and a beautiful wedding? Our family and friends loved the Vegas idea, and told him so. Then he started freaking out...How many people are you inviting??? I told him that the guest list was under 20 people, but if our other friends wanted to come see us get hitched while taking a vacation of their own, then the more the merrier! He stressed about this a bit. And when I started talking money, he looked at me and said that we could leave the country and have a tropical wedding for less than that. This was when he brought up Belize.
I had never heard of Belize. No idea where it was located, what was there, what the culture was, what language they spoke. So I started researching...and found out that Belize was JUST what we were looking for. Belize is a super small country in Central America. The language is English (although the locals also speak a form of creole) and they accept US dollars along with Belizian Dollars. The exchange rate is roughly $2 BZE = $1 US.

As far as things to do....pretty much everything you could think of. They have the longest barrier reef in this hemisphere, home to the Great Blue Hole, with hundreds of islands, snorkel and dive locations. Hundreds of ancient Maya sites both excavated and jungle-covered, and a lush tropical rain forest.

So we started looking into the When....and we discovered if we traveled at the beginning of May, we would save bunches of money since that was when the dry season started, but everything would still be pretty lush. So we watched plane prices, and when the tickets that were $800 each in January became $350 in March, we JUMPED on them like crazy people.

Using the Internet, we also booked our beachfront cabana at Xaman Ek and wedding services thru Belize Weddings and of course we had to have a photographer, so we chose the lovely and talented Jen Sharp.

It might sound odd...but we decided to take this journey alone. There was a waiting period to obtain the wedding license, so we had the honeymoon all week, and got married on Friday, May 22nd. Instead of drama, and stress, and coordinating friends and family for activities, we decided to be a little selfish. It worked out perfectly. Our family wasn't hurt, they were just happy that we finally made everything all nice and legal. A few friends were a little hurt that they were not included, but I think overall, they understood our reasoning.

Let me tell you about our amazing week in Belize.

We kayaked to the reef (which is only about a mile from shore) and snorkeled. (yes...I did not apply enough sun screen and I got COOKED on our first day there...ugh)

Then we arranged to get scuba certified. We dove Monday, Wednesday, and Friday (yes...the morning we got married, we spent an hour or so at the bottom of the ocean. It was so beautiful). I was terrified, but it was the most breathtaking thing ever. The colors of the things you see underwater are unreal. I cannot wait to get all that gear strapped back on and to dive again. I am told that Belize spoiled us, that the visibility is so perfect and the water so warm that we will be disappointed anywhere else we go...I sure hope that is not the case!

On Thursday we traveled inland to Lamanai, a Mayan temple. It was a 26 mile trip up-river where we saw all kinds of creatures. Manatee's, bats the size of a quarter, turtles, and even dolphins. There were several ruins that we were able to climb and explore, but the High Temple proved to be too much for me. Randy made it to the top, while I was entertained by some feuding Toucans and Howler Monkeys.

In the evenings, we took a boat ride from our resort to San Pedro, the main town on Ambergris Caye. Every restaurant we ate at was fantastic, the gift shops were fun to explore and there were street vendors where we purchased plenty of souvenirs for those we left at home. The main way to get around on Ambergris Caye is by boat, or golf cart. We mostly walked, and on most corners there were these great little "You are Here" signs that showed where everything you could possibly imagine was located in town. We found the post office, grocery stores, ATM machines....it was so great!

The on Friday...we were married. The pastor was this delightful woman, Susannah Flores. I cannot imagine a more lovely ceremony. It was simple and heartfelt. There were happy tears. I whispered my vows. Randy held my hand throughout the entire ceremony. We promised to make a home together, to celebrate life's joys together, to be committed to one another, to help each other to achieve our goals, to be our best friends, and to live life to the fullest with each other until the end of our days.

Sunrise the morning we left. This was the view from my doorway. The only quiet moment I had all day. We rushed packing (how is it that your suitcase is never big enough on your way home?) We made our way thru security (where they confiscated my conch shell that Randy got me at the bottom of the ocean....we are so going back so he can get me another) we hopped a plane from Belize City to Atlanta via Charlotte. And then we drove home from Atlanta to Montgomery. We got home, slept like the dead, and Sunday morning we rushed to my parents house to pick up our sweet little boy who had been basking in the attentions of his beloved grandparents for the 8 days we were gone.

I cannot tell you how much we missed that sweet boy. I know he was safe and content and loved with my parents, but we had never been separated that long.

So...as we come to our one year anniversary, I want to tell my husband how much I love him. How happy I am with the life we have together, how much I love our son and this second one who will be arriving in a few short weeks. There is no other place in my life I would rather be. No matter what comes our way, I am confident that we will face it and overcome it.

Now...go tell your sweetie how much you love them today!

Dining in Montgomery...a contribution to Alabama Bloggers

2010-05-14T08:56:00.000-05:00

This week, I wanted to share a few places here in Montgomery that we frequent.
And you can read all about them here! I contribute to Alabama Bloggers and if you live in Alabama, you should check it out! Its a great site where all the locals can "meet, network, and get to know your blogging neighbors."

Ladies and Gentlemen...We have a Winner!

2010-05-14T08:52:00.000-05:00

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I am so tickled to announce the first winner for my first giveaway. The winner of the 50 Custom Thank You Cards and 4 Baronial Blank Envelopes, (sponsored by Uprinting.com is ASBLACKASOBAMA.

I will be sending you an email, so be on the lookout!

Friday Follow, and a quick Preggo Post

2010-05-07T13:42:00.001-05:00

Hello Hello!
Its Friday again, so last week, I participated in the Friday Follow and it was great! I found several new blogs to read and doubled my number of readers. So I am trying it out again this week, hopefully to find some more cool blogs that I can follow.

Update on the Pregnancy...

I am 35 weeks pregnant with little boy #2. We are scheduled to have a c-section on June 8th.

Why a scheduled c-sec? Well... way back when...when I was pregnant with Bailey, he got comfortable, and refused to get into the appropriate position, and for several weeks we were aware that he was breech. There was no moving that big boy, so we scheduled a c-sec, and he arrived at 39 weeks on April 18th, 8lbs 8 oz, perfect in every way.

I know there are some people who have very strong opinions on c-sections and VBAC's, and natural birth. My opinion is that as parents, we need to do what is best for us. A c-sec was necessary for me for my first born. My OB prefers to avoid VBAC's, so this will be another c-sec for me. I am perfectly OK with that. I know the drill, I know what to expect, and I am confident that all will go well. I also love that we can schedule this arrival, so we have time to make plans with out of town family, and what to do with #1 while #2 arrives.

I have gotten the nursery ready, I have washed all the little sleepers and blankets, I need to get bottles washed before he gets here (in case you are wondering, I will nurse, and pump so Dad can also enjoy bonding time with #2, we also supplement with formula if needed).
I am so ready. I have gotten to the uncomfortable stage, and add a little Alabama heat and humidity....Lets go! I also think that with this one I am more eager for him to arrive, since I know the joy he will bring to our lives. I am nervous about how my sweet Bailey will deal with all the changes in our house. He is very much a Momma's boy. But I hope he will use this time to do lots more bonding with Dad.

So this is all the fun stuff going on in my world at the moment.

Oh, and take just a moment to enter the Giveaway sponsored by UPrinting.com, just leave a comment letting me know you want in!

Enjoy your weekend! Be sure to honor the Mom's in your life on Sunday for Mother's Day.

Giveaway!

2010-05-05T11:37:00.000-05:00

I participated in the Friday Follow last week, and I was amazed that the number of readers on my blog DOUBLED! That was just fantastic! So to celebrate...I am honored to host a Greeting Card Giveaway!

The Giveaway is sponsored by UPrinting.com. Greeting cards are an excellent way to say “Hi” and “Hello” to your friends, and not only can also use these for businesses; you can also have your greeting cards customized. By customizing it you can add some personal photos, graphics, logos, pictures and personal messages. The goal of customizing a greeting card is to create a uniquely personal greeting card that reflects the creativity of the sender.

The Giveaway Prize : 50 Custom Thank You Cards with plain envelopes 7 x 5" (folded to 3.5 x 5") and
4 Baronial Blank Envelopes, 14 pt Cardstock Gloss coating, Full Color Outside and Blank Inside

This giveaway ends on the 13th of May, and I will announce the winner on the 14th!

To enter....Just leave a comment below letting me know you would love to win! Winner will be selected by random number generator. Comment no more than 3 times please.

***Please note, you must be 18 or older to join the giveaway.***

How does your garden grow?

2010-04-30T10:16:00.001-05:00

It is that time of year.

As a kid, we always helped my parents ready the yard for my Momma's garden. We went to the store or farmers market and helped with plant selection, we got the water hoses ready for use, and we all got in the dirt and helped plant a 10x10 veggie garden. We were also commandeered to help weed, water and harvest the multitude of plants. But let me tell you, there is something magical about eating a fat, ripe, juicy tomato while it is still warm from the sun. If you have no idea what I am talking about, you are MISSING OUT!!

This year, my husband decided we should have a garden of our own. So he started some plants from seeds, and others he purchased, and since we have a SMALL backyard, he decided to invest in a raised bed. We figured it would be easier to keep the dog out of it since there are clear boundaries.

So here is my darling husband, loading up Bailey's wagon to transport all the plants to their new home in the backyard.

You have to start with good dirt. We have none in our yard, so we are cheating and using the Miracle Grow. I will be adding compost and mulch to the top to help with weed prevention and to add nutrients to the soil.

Here you can see all the fun Randy and Bailey had planting the garden. There is a little of everything in there. Several types of tomatoes, cucumbers, squash, corn, melons, eggplant, peppers, and I think a random jalapeno plant.

Half of the finished product. We started Friday afternoon (last week) because there was a storm coming and we wanted the benefit of all that rainwater. We put the other side in Sunday afternoon, and this week everything is thriving. The dog only got in here once...and I think Randy's screaming terrified him so much, he has not looked at it since.

I am not a super green person. I do my part when I can. I carry fabric bags to the grocery store, I turn off lights when I am not in the room, I have my thermostat set to let the house get warmer when I know there will be no one in it, and I always wash my clothes in cold water. Most of this stuff I do because it benefits me. It lowers the cost of living. And that was a big reason for the garden this year. Last year we hit the local farmers market every weekend and spent at least $20 every time. I LOVE fresh produce. And I would rather support someone local than the supermarket. Have you shopped the produce section lately? Tomato's are $2/lb or more! Its crazy. Cucumbers are 2/$1 So yes, this garden will have paid for itself by the time fall gets here, and maybe I can meet some neighbors while sharing all the extras I hope to have!

Friday Follow

2010-04-30T09:22:00.001-05:00

Join the Friday Follow! Click here. Hosted by One 2 Try, Hearts Make Families and Midday Escapades!

Leave a comment if you are new, so I can come check out your blog!

Family Itinerary

2010-04-26T11:31:00.002-05:00

Head on over to Alabama Bloggers!
My post about fun stuff to do as a family in Montgomery is up today!
http://www.alabamabloggers.com/2010/04/visitor-guide-to-montgomery.html

An Online Chore Chart

2010-04-15T10:00:00.000-05:00

Did you have chores to do when you were a kid? We did. I am the oldest of three, and we all had assigned chores for as long as I can remember. When we got older, it was more expected that we pitch in and help, but we had assigned chores and we were paid a weekly allowance if the chores were completed.

I would like to think that it helped me become the responsible adult that I am today. It teaches that there are rewards and consequences to your actions, and time management. I think its also supposed to help teach money management, but that one slipped by me...it wasn't until I was 21 getting a divorce with several thousand dollars in credit card debt (from buying STUPID stuff) that I took a Dave Ramsey class and opened my eyes to money management.

Ah...but I digress. I was recently sent an email that encouraged me to try out a new product called My Job Chart.

My Job Chart is a FREE online Chore Chart that teaches kids to work in a fun and productive way. Using an easy and fun online system, My Job Chart inspires kids to do their chores on time. An interactive point system tracks your child's progress, creating excitement and enthusiasm among kids. And the fully customizable chore chart allows you and your child to decide upon mutually determined rewards, fostering communication and developing responsibility. You even get an email or text message when your kids finish their chores or they earn a reward!

Well...my son is 3, so what type of jobs can I realistically expect him to do around the house? And I don't exactly expect him to go online when the tasks are completed and update me. But they also have a function that allows you to print out a weekly sheet that has all the daily chores listed.

So I can print this out and make sure that Bailey is getting all of this fun stuff accomplished every day.They do have "point" values assigned to each chore, and you can make these point values or monetary values. But lets face it. He thinks money is the stuff you find in the dryer, or he steals out of my husbands pockets at the end of the day. Its shiny and we put it in the piggy bank. Its pretty meaningless to him. But a trip to the bookstore is a big deal...so maybe we will work on this and teach him that brushing those teeth and cooperating when picking up toys and books at the end of the day has positive consequences, like a new book.

Also, since I am not working at the moment, I think it would also be a great tool to make sure that I am getting daily/weekly tasks accomplished. (Its easy to forget when the last time you steam cleaned the carpet was.)

So...if you are looking for a way to get your family chores on track, go check this out. Its free, so you have nothing to lose, and it was a quick and simple sign up system, all it required was an email address.

Let me know if you try it and how you like it!

Just to be clear, I was not paid to do this review. I was entered in a contest to win a gift certificate, but lets face it...contest winners are few and far between. :) Kristen

Fun things about living in Montgomery

2010-04-13T12:40:00.001-05:00

So there are a few fun things going on in Montgomery in the next few weeks.
And you should head over to Alabama Bloggers to see my post about what they are!

http://www.alabamabloggers.com/2010/04/fun-things-about-living-in-montgomery.html

Life's a Beach

2010-04-12T14:03:00.001-05:00

Ok...I have been absent. We took the family to Gulf Shores for the week and had such a good time! The weather cooperated, the 3 yr old cooperated, it was fun. So here are a few pics so you can see the fun stuff that kept us occupied.

We played in the sand.

We watched the boats go by... (did you forget that I am now 8 months pregnant?)

We raced along the beach...

We posed for Dad in FREEZING COLD water.

Then we played putt putt. Bailey showed us the secret to a hole in one EVERY TIME! Who knew it was so easy??

Then Randy took Bailey on his first go kart ride ever! We worried the noise or the smells might be too much for him, but nope...He LOVED it!

Then on Wednesday we went to Mobile. At the Exploreum they have an exhibit called "Dinosaurs Downtown" and there are 12 life sized dino's. This was a small area, but packed with dinos. Bailey was so impressed with ALL of the dinos. They all made realistic noises, they weren't too scary, and one even spit water at you. We went thru this exhibit 3 times! For a little boy who LOVES the dinosaur, this was the perfect treat!

I love the beach. We rented a 2BR/2B condo that was beachfront and fully equipped. We got an excellent deal since its in between Spring Break and Summer Vacations. (But it was actually SB for my step son from IN) All this for under $100 a night. And we purchased breakfast goodies, so we saved $40 a day on breakfast out, we even ate a few dinners of hamburgers and grilled cheese. And by saving money on dining out, we were able to go and do other fun activities. It was Win/Win!

Something to get the creative juices flowing...

2010-03-26T09:16:00.003-05:00

My girlfriends and I try to do something together every so often. We have been friends since highschool, and since we graduated almost 12 years ago...that is really saying something.
We don't talk on the phone everyday, we all have very busy lives, but we make that time to get together, to refresh our spirits. Sometimes you just need a time out from being Momma, Wife, Girlfriend, Daughter, and Sister.
We decided to try something new last night, and we headed out to Corks and Canvas. They are all over Alabama now, and under different names (Sips and Strokes is another).

So head on over to Alabama Blogger to see how everything turned out!

And Voila! My finished product. Funly Tree a la Kristen.

This is the perfect activity for date night, or for a group of friends to get together and have a good time. And when you go...come back to tell us about your experience, and show off your MAD skills!

Shaving

2010-03-11T12:43:00.001-06:00

So there comes a time in every boy's life, when he must learn that necessary task to becoming a man.
He must learn how to shave.
At least he must shave in my house...because prickly faces do not get kisses....my scruffy faced husband will vouch for this.

Bailey got a Spongebob shaving kit for Christmas....so we let him try it out. I supervised, Dad took pictures and gave a hilarious commentary...too bad I didn't vlog this. Oh Well...

Make sure you have enough, and that the lather is perfect

Application is key....get it everywhere!

Mom lends a hand...since there are no mirrors in the tub.

Feel the difference...smooth baby skin left!

A little do it yourself action...

What can I say? The kid cracks me up!

Just remember, no one likes smooching a scruffy face.

Fun Bloggy Stuff

2010-03-09T06:11:00.000-06:00

So just something fun to see how often you use the same words over and over....apparently TIME is a big thing for me. I guess it makes me happy that there are no ugly words here. That the things I talk about most are random and silly and harmless.

Head over to Wordle to see what your blog says about you.

Planning the boy's birthday party

2010-03-08T11:01:00.000-06:00

So on April 18th, my son will turn 3. It is crazy. I cannot believe that much time has passed since I heard that gurgle and then Randy was telling me that he was here. B was a planned c-sec, so we got to pick his birthday, and our family was at the hospital at the appointed time awaiting his arrival.

I do love to plan!

For Birthday #1 we invited a small group of family and friends to the Zoo. We braved the cold (because AL weather is like that. Contrary. Any other time it wouldhave been 70*, for his party, it was like 60*) and we had cake and rode the train, and set everyone loose so they could enjoy the zoo at their own pace.

For Birthday #2, we did the zoo again. Same small group plus a few co-workers and their kids. We added pizza to the mix, and we set up camp at the new park that the zoo had just built. A great time was had by all.

This year, we decided we could not do the zoo again...we just can't.

So after much research and deliberation, we have decided on a bowling party. The lanes here in town are a little pricey, but since DH is active duty military, we have the option of having his party on base. We will only need an accurate head count to present to Security Forces so they know who will be coming on base.

YAY! I am pretty excited. We have taken B to bowl a few times to get him used to the idea and he mostly loves it. He is not so keen on the taking of turns. This is something that we need to work on anyway, so it will be fine. And if the birthday boy has to sit in a time out at his own party, then so be it.

Since we are in the 30 days and counting stage, I get to order the invitations, arrange the cake, and buy the decorations and plates. We decided to go with a Sponge Bob theme, since the yellow guy is his favorite person on TV at the moment.

I am certain we will have a great time, and there will be pictures of preggos bowling that will make you howl with laughter. I am currently the same size as a bowling ball...its so funny.

Meal Planning Monday

2010-03-08T10:29:00.000-06:00

DH & I both work , so we only plan for dinner and then figure out as we go on the weekend.
Enjoy!

Head over to Organizing Junkie to see some other great plans!

Sunday- DINNER OUT! (We went shopping, and since everyone has been sick, it was nice to have a simple night out)
Monday- DINNER OUT! Local Mexican restaurant has Spongebob visiting for Kids Night
Tuesday- Meatloaf
Wednesday- Beef & Broccoli
Thursday- Baked Ratatouille
Friday- Steak with Crispy Potato Cakes
Saturday- Lemon Chkn Tenders

Fun and Crazy things going on in my world

2010-03-02T07:39:00.001-06:00

I am have a post over at ALabama Bloggers. So if you are from AL and looking for something to do in Montgomery, go look and see what I have recommended :)
http://www.alabamabloggers.com/2010/03/montgomery-happenings.html

In other news...

Sunday afternoon, my dear friend I have known since HS called me & our girlfriends (there are 4 of us total) to tell us she was a Mother and that she had a 3m old baby girl at home.

Huh??

She was a little sketchy on the details, partially because I think she is so nervous/excited. But basically, the birth mom doesn't feel she is ready for the responsibility of being a mom.

Personally, I have no idea how you could have a child and give her up, but I am thankful that there are women out there like that because it gives others the opportunities to become the Mother that they have always dreamed of being.

I am so excited for my friend, and now we are just waiting for everything to become legal and official.

We did all go over to her house Sunday night, and fawn over the precious little girl. And there were hugs and tears.

So, any comments are appreciated, and any prayers and happy thoughts for you to send her way as well. I want this all to work out, because she is just one of those people who was born to be Betty Homemaker, and I know she will make an amazing patient and loving momma.

The First Kiss

2010-03-01T06:00:00.002-06:00

Your first kiss.

So a very funny blog that I read is Adventures of WannaBe SupahMommy. She is opinionated, and mouthy, and she cracks me up! She also does a bunch of MEme...just fun silly things, that give you a pick up during a crazy day.

Well, it's that time again! All About MEme time ! This time Supah and MommyBrain want to dig into your past and unlock that super secret diary post you wrote about in 8th grade.

Your first kiss.

Wait? Yours wasn't in 8th grade? SECOND GRADE? Fer shame ! You can march yourself RIGHT to confession missy!

So here it is... a story about my FIRST KISS...

Picture it, a sunny day in the hot, humid, Alabama Summer. No school, no shoes, no place to be.

I was 12...that summer between the 6th and 7th grade. And I was "going together" (because that means what exactly? And do kids still do that?) with a boy named Jeremiah. (Insert funny bullfrog song here)
He lived about a mile from my neighborhood, but he had a bike, and every couple of days or so, he would come visit my neighborhood. (because my BFF had a swimming pool, and yes, there was always a parent present- this is a G rated post people)

So one day, after we had been going together for like two whole weeks...(because when you are 12, that is a lifetime people) he was on his way home. My BFF and I walked him to the gate, and she kind of wandered off, and we were talking...
And he leaned over the gate and kissed me. Right on the lips! Just a little smooch. It was magical!
For about 2 seconds.
Then he ruined it. He grabbed the sides of my face and stuck his tounge in my mouth.
YUCK!
Because to a 12 year old girl, this is just the grossest thing that you could do. Where was the kiss like they do in the moview? The passionate embrace? Tom Cruise NEVER put spit in someones mouth...did he?

It didn't scar me for life...but it was a LONG, LONG time before I got another smooch.
I should probably tell this story to my mother, she may want to thank him :)

I hope you enjoyed. Now spill...Tell Supah about your first kiss. Its gotta be better than mine.

I am dressing the place up

2010-02-24T10:13:00.002-06:00

I read most of my blogs in Google Reader. I love that I can organize them by my own little categories, for example: Crafty, Mommy Blogs, Funny. So when I want to see some humor...straight to the Funny folder to see my LOL Cats for some giggles.

So I usually do not see the hard work that people have done to dress up their space. (Sorry!) But when I do see something that I MUST comment upon, I go and I see lovely, colorful sites, and buttons.

Buttons! Everyone who is anyone in Bloggyland has a Button.
Well...I wanted a button. But where do they come from? Do I have to buy a button? I came across a tutorial from Shannon that instructed you in the ways of Making your own Button. So I tried it...So user friendly! And I made my very own button! And a box with the code in it! Too cool. So if you want your very own button, I suggest you head over to Mommybits.net and follow her excellant directions!

Click here to try it! Make your own Button

Now I am going to figure out a banner...and whatever fun stuff I can add without making the place look trashy. :)

You are invited to attend Diana: A Celebration Blogger Day

2010-02-23T10:32:00.000-06:00

You are invited to attend Diana: A Celebration Blogger Day.
This exhibit, now open at the Atlanta Civic Center, chronicles the life of the late Diana, Princess of Wales. Diana: A Celebration showcases the life and humanitarian work of Diana through nine galleries containing more than 150 artifacts-ranging from Diana’s royal wedding gown and 28 of her designer dresses to family heirlooms, personal mementoes, paintings, rare home movies and photos.

Diana: A Celebration Blogger Day will be held at the Atlanta Civic Center on Saturday, March 6, 2010. Come experience this touching exhibition first hand from 10:00am-7:00pm (last admission at 5:00pm). Bloggers will receive FREE admission for them and one guest.

Please RSVP to scott@creaxion.com by Wednesday, March 3 and include your blog’s web address for verification. Tickets will be available for pick up at the Box Office, located in the lobby of the exhibition, the day of the event.

Meal Planning Monday Feb 22nd

2010-02-22T13:35:00.001-06:00

Its that time of the week again...I have a list, and as long as its posted to the fridge, Randy will remember to take it out of the Freezer before he leaves for work.

There is alot of hamburger this week, because I bought the big package, and did not seperate it before sticking it in the freezer. So I cooled it all last night and its bagged and tagged in the fridge.

While I continually offer our meals to Bailey, he is at a picky stage, so quick fixes for him are grilled cheese, PB & J, hotdogs, fun nutritional things like that. Usually with a fruit and a yogurt. Any suggestions on making the picky child eat?? Help Help?!?!

Sunday, Sloppy Joes, Oven Fries

Monday, Beef Turnovers, Mac & Chz

Tuesday, potato soup

Wednesday, Taco Salad

Thursday, BBQ Beef Mini Pizza

Friday, Beef & Broccoli, Rice

Saturday, DINNER OUT!

Sunday, Pot Roast

For more great menu ideas and tips, please visit Laura at Orgjunkie.com!

Planet Shark Blogger Day at the Georgia Aquarium

2010-02-20T11:09:00.002-06:00

Georgia Aquarium offered Bloggers two free passes to go see the new exhibit Planet Shark, and of course to view the aquarium. We LOVE the aquarium. Bailey has been several times, and we always enjoy ourselves. So we jumped at the opportunity (and the almost $70 in savings) and headed to Atlanta, GA for the weekend.

I feel like I should mention that thanks to this promotion...our tickets were at the Will Call window...where there was NO LINE. It was a busy, busy Saturday at the Aquarium, and I was dreading the line, but we were routed straight to the window, dropped my name and provided ID and we were DONE! Its the little things like that, that REALLY make my day.

The Georgia Aquarium in Atlanta, Georgia, is the world’s largest with more than eight million gallons of water and the largest collection of aquatic animals. The mission of the Georgia Aquarium is to be an entertaining, educational and scientific institution featuring exhibits and programs of the highest standards, offering engaging and exciting guest experiences and promoting the conservation of aquatic biodiversity throughout the world. For additional information, visit http://www.georgiaaquarium.org/.

Petting the Sting Rays...how cool is that? These guys are used to attention, so they were coming right up to us begging for a little affection. Precious!

Starfish! Just like on Nemo!

Here we are at the Cold Water Quest.

Here is Randy, explaining to Bailey how Sponge Bob catches the Jellyfish, and enjoys Krabby Patties with Jellyfish Jelly on them.... I know, we are silly, but Bailey had the best time there!

Planet Shark: Predator or Prey is a stand-alone exhibition inside the Aquarium. The interactive and engaging exhibition explores some of the unique relationships humans have forged with one of the world’s most feared predators-the shark.

We did not make it to the exhibit, Bloggers were warned that it might be a bit too graphic for young children, all those shark teeth I guess, but here are some pics for your perusal...

Pretty cool....but not something the munchkin boy would have enjoyed.

And, if you would like to go see for yourself...Here is a coupon!

Thank you to Grande Exhibitions and Georgia Aquarium for the complimentary tickets to the aquarium and the Planet Shark exhibit.

Cool stuff in Bloggyland

2010-02-18T13:24:00.001-06:00

There is always something going on in the Blog-world. Sometimes its funny, sometimes it makes you thoughtful, and sometimes, its something that could possible save you some time.

I participate in Organizing Junkie's Mean Planning Monday...I try to do a meal plan that lasts about two weeks and I hit the grocery store with list in hand. I also try to add a new recipe in every week or two, just because I get tired of eating the same thing, over and over and over and over....you get my drift.

Today I came across The Red Chair Blog.

And this SO Amazing post she did to help with Meal Planning. Meal Planning Magnets.

She has a tutorial that makes it look super easy, and I cant wait to try it out! (Although I dont have any of the junk magnets she used, I will have to hit the local craft store to see what I can use to improvise.)

DH is actually pretty good at taking stuff out of the freezer to defrost if he knows what dinner is planned. It makes life so much easier for us both!

Meal Planning Monday Feb 15th

2010-02-15T08:59:00.003-06:00

If you would like more inspiration for your menu, visit I'm an Organizing Junkie!

I just plan for dinner, since DH and I both work, we eat whatever on the weekend for breakfast and lunch.

Monday-- Sw & Sr Pork, rice
Tuesday--Pot Roast, potato/carrots
Wednesday--Beef & Broccoli, Rice
Thursday--potato soup
Friday-- Date night! DINNER OUT!
Saturday-- Dinner out with Friends!
Sunday--Sloppy Joes, Oven Fries

My Friends

2010-02-12T12:16:00.003-06:00

I read an article from Parenting Magazine, 6 Friends Every Mom Needs and it amazes me that I have these friends, and I maintain these friendships. They are so important to me for so many different reasons.

The Mom in the Same Boat

Why you need her: "She gets it." I have a friend whom I have known since highschool and she delivered her little boy two weeks after I delivered my son. We were preggos together and have grown as Mom's together. We dont agree on everything (by NO means!) But I love to bounce ideas and thoughts off her.

The No-Kids Pal

Why you need her: "For adult conversation" I have two of these. One a friend from college, another a friend since highschool. Both mean the world to me. I can talk all things Mommy, Woman, Work, and Sex with them. They may not get it...but they love me regardless. And they always have feedback :)

The Been-There, Done-That Mom

Why you need her: "She gets you through your "I don't know what I'm supposed to do next" moments." This is my mom...I have a few casual friends I can ask questions of, but my Mom is my greatest resource.

The I'll-Do-Anything-For-You Buddy

Why you need her: These are my same Non Mom Buds. All it would take would be a phone call and help would arrive. Just like I did that one time, at 2am, when she called from a bar 30 min away, and I went from my nice warm bed to go "rescue" her :) Its what you do for your girlfriends. You go, no questions asked, other than "Are you OK?" And "What can I do to help?" No matter what time that phone rings. Because when I am the one making that call, I want the same consideration.

The Slightly Glam Girlfriend

Why you need her: "For inspiration (it is possible to be a fashionable mom), advice (how does she get out the door looking so great?), and a wardrobe you can borrow." My Mom in the same boat also fills this role. She motivates me to take my butt to the gym, and she critiques my fashion choices. But alas, I dont bother with makeup most days, because I am comfortable with my nekkid face. So while she cringes, I run around in just my moisturizer :)

The Brutally Honest Pal

Why you need her: You need her to tell you the truth, when no one else wants to. And she WILL. And it might sting, but you cant be mad at her for her honesty. She will tell me things I know, but want to avoid, she will remind me of past mistakes if need be. She has a memory like an elephant,and she has known me since the 9th grade, so there is no limit to her powers....But you know what? She expects the same from me. A lie would hurt her more than the truth ever would. And we have taken a "TIME OUT" because of this. I think it made us stronger, and helped us grow up a bit, to take different paths for a little while.

Maintaining friendships is hard work, just like any valuable relationship. It takes time and energy. But the rewards are numerous. We gals get together about every 4-6 wks and take a moment to just be US. We are not mom or sister or wife. We leave our roles at the door and we are just girlfriends. And we are loud and silly and we have the best time. And that time away from my many many roles, rejuvinates me, and I think it helps make me better as a whole. You have to water your whole garden to have a bountiful season...just like you have to nurture every part of your life at one time or another to be a better person.

Take a moment and evaluate your friendships, do you see your friends playing any of these roles? Impressive isnt it. Go read the article, and enjoy!

No Snow Day...

2010-02-12T08:23:00.003-06:00

Update....Its snowing, but not sticking.
And the base closed down for the day. So DH didn't have to work.

HE SENT ME TO WORK :(

So he and Bailey are going to have a boys day, while Mom slaves away at work. Boo!

My boss looked at me when I came in and asked why I was here. I told her the base was closed, she said she knew that, but still didnt actually expect me to come in...bummer.

Oh well...one more vacation day saved for that big trip in April I am trying to talk him into (more on that to come).

Update....after my 8 hr grind at work, I came home and played in the snow with my boys....

Snow Day!

2010-02-11T15:22:00.004-06:00
This is Alabama people...and we are scheduled to get 1-3 inches of snow tonight, and there is pandemonium in the streets! Ok, I am overexaggerating...a little.
Schools are closing in my city, so my daycare is closed, so its a mandatory Mental Health Day for me and the boy tomorrow. I wonder if we can accomplish anything noteworthy.

I think we may rearrange furniture in the living room because it drives DH crazy...hehe. Plus the only way I arranged it the current way was because I wanted the Christmas Tree in the front window (and it looked SO pretty there...see??)

Then of course, we can vaccuum and shampoo the carpets, Bailey LOVES to help with that. And I may be a rotten mom and sit him in front of the TV for about 30m or so, just to clean the bathrooms without assistance. (And really...he doesnt need to be around the chemicals)

Then, we should go out for lunch! I have restaurant gift certificates that are burning a hole in my wallet, so I may call a friend and see if she will join us.

Then its NAPTIME!!! I LOVE naptime. Its the best part of the day!

And after nap, we can goof off until DH gets home.
Sounds like a plan people. A little work, a little play, and a NAP! Ah...the makings of a lovely Mental Health/Snow Day.

What do you do on your unexpected day at home?

Are you Crazy like me?

2010-01-27T08:18:00.003-06:00

I like to plan. OK, let me clarify, I LOVE to plan.
I love to do the research, pick things out, organize, and then see it all come to fruition.
This goes for trips, parties, dinners, meetings, you name it.
I really, really love to put it all in an itinerary in Excel so I can move things around as needed.

I kid you not. My friend Miranda & I went to Vegas....spreadsheet! I even plotted our daily nap and time for beautification before we went out for the evening. Miranda and I went to NYC with Valerie and Ashley, spreadsheet! (and Val LOVED it, she IS crazy like me)

So when I ask my husband what we are thinking of doing for our son's birthday party in April, he just looks at me and says, "Do you realize that its January?"

Of course I do.

Does he realize that I am pregnant and I want to get as much of this done before I am too uncomfortable to think? Does he know that there are multiple baby showers that I will have to attend (YAY!) and Spring Break to plan, and more birthday parties, and my sister is having a baby, and yep, I AM HAVING A BABY, and consignment sales that will all need attention in the upcoming months?
He thinks I am crazy. I think I am just trying to organize the upcoming chaos.

So, for a 3 yr old boy's party, do we do the Zoo again? We love the zoo. Its got things for adults and kids of all ages, but we have done the Zoo for the last two years. I thought about the park, but I hate to have to interact with other children who may not be well supervised, or as kind to my child as I would like. Randy suggested one of those bounce house thingies. But we do not have room in our yard for one, and the parks that allow them are not in the most desirable of locations.

The next question is theme...
Right now B is all about some Lightning McQueen, Sponge bob, and anything Dinosaur. But how do you pick? Decorations are pretty easy for all of them. We buy some licensed stuff and supplement with sold colors to round everything out without breaking the bank. And we will prob use cupcakes again this year, just because they were so much easier than cake!

My goal is to have all this decided and ordered and planned within the next month.
I'll keep you updated.

Post It Note Tuesday: What Will You Say Today?

2010-01-26T13:31:00.001-06:00
I thought I would try something new, I read a few blogs that participate in Post it Note Tuesday and they crack me up ! It's time for Post It Note Tuesdays hosted by Supah Mommy. Go over to her place for instructions about how to join the party.

Adventures of WannaBe SupahMommy: Post It Note Tuesday: What Will You Say Today?: ""

If it doesn't belong to you, leave it alone

2010-01-22T16:11:00.001-06:00
Didn't your momma teach you when you were growing up that if something wasn't yours, you shouldn’t touch it? My momma did. If we were in a store, there was a "hands off" policy. If we were visiting out of town family, we waited to be asked before diving into someone else's toy box. It was the rule.

Well, Wednesday evening, my sister called to tell me that someone had broken into their house while they were at work. Ouch! I hate that for them. My sister and BIL have worked HARD for what they have. They just bought that house last spring, they are expecting my perfect niece this April, and everything is going well for them. It’s not fair that some lowlife tried to diminish the value of what they have. I am thankful that there was minimal damage to their home, and that not a lot was stolen. What was taken was mostly electronic and can easily be replaced. I just hate that someone violated their space.

Several years ago, someone broke into my car. It was parked in my driveway at the time and I had left my purse in the front floorboard. (I know...NOT SMART) I left the house to head to church & I turned around and went inside and called the police instead. I was more ticked that the thief had taken my FAVORITE Kenneth Cole wallet, and broken my window than anything else. They left my jacket, my cd's, you could almost feel bad for them because I carry no cash (never have, I lose it), and there was nothing of value to anyone other than me in my purse. I was one of those anal people who keep a list of credit cards and phone numbers in my bill box, and I had called them all and cancelled them all by the time the police arrived 20m later. So it was more annoying for me, than anything else, an inconvenience.

So…the moral of the story, if it’s not yours, let it be. I wish that the creep(s) who broke into their home (and my car!) had been paying attention when their momma was teaching them that lesson!

Mexican Meat Loaf Recipe

2010-01-22T15:58:00.001-06:00
You asked, I delivered!
I actually started making this recipe from the Cooking For 2 Magazine that Taste of Home put out. Since it was just me & DH. But here is the full scale version

Mexican Meat Loaf Recipe Taste of Home Recipes: "Mexican Meat Loaf Recipe

6 ServingsPrep: 10 min. Bake: 1 hour

Ingredients
3/4 cup milk
2 eggs, lightly beaten
1/2 cup dry bread crumbs (I substitute tortilla chips! YUM!)
1/4 cup finely chopped onion
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon pepper
1/2 teaspoon chili powder
1-1/2 pounds lean ground beef
1 jar (16 ounces) picante sauce
Directions
In a large bowl, combine the first seven ingredients. Add beef and mix well. Pat into a greased 8-in. x 4-in. loaf pan.
Bake, uncovered, at 350° for 1 hour or a meat thermometer reaches 160°. Top with warm picante sauce. Yield: 6 servings.

Nutrition Facts: 1 serving (1 slice) equals 280 calories, 12 g fat (5 g saturated fat), 144 mg cholesterol, 689 mg sodium, 14 g carbohydrate, trace fiber, 26 g protein."

Menu Plan Monday

2010-01-18T08:43:00.003-06:00
Monday again...Here is the menu for the week and if you want to see more, go check out Orgjunkie.com, she has TONS of menus out there and others linked up, so you can get some new ideas!

Again, DH & I work M-F so breakfast on the weekends is pick and choose, and lunch is usually on the go.

Monday, January 18, 2010 Mexican Meatloaf & green beans
Tuesday, January 19, 2010 Pizza
Wednesday, January 20, Pot Roast & mashed potatoes
Thursday, January 21, 2010 Sloppy Joes & corn on cob
Friday, January 22, 2010 DINNER OUT!
Saturday, January 23, 2010 steak & Oven Fries
Sunday, January 24, 2010 Sw & Sr Pork with Rice

18 Weeks!

2010-01-14T10:31:00.001-06:00

Your Baby's Development This Week

• This week, your baby is about 5-1/2 inches long, or about the length of a large tomato.
• Your baby's skeleton continues to harden. His leg bones and inner ear bones are the first to ossify (harden).

How Far Along: 18 wks
Total Weight Gain: still down 15 for the entire pregnangcy, I gained 3 back this month
Sleep: Still pretty OK, I have a little insomnia here and there, but I am left side sleeping and only gettig up to pee a few times if at all.
Best Moment this week: My 29+1 Bday Monday & tonight Dinner with the girls!
Movement: Lots, especially when there is loud noise (hello movie theater) and I am still, noone else can feel the boy yet.
Belly Button: IN! Hopefully it will stay in like it did the first go round.
What I miss: Girls night...when we could stay up past 9pm :)
What I am looking forward to: Getting the crib out of B's room and downstairs for munchkin #2
Weekly Wisdom: Take the trash out before you leave the house for date night...its ugly to come home and have it strewn all over the floor because of your bad dog.

Sale at UdderCovers!

2010-01-13T21:13:00.001-06:00
I ordered one of these last month and I cant wait to use it!

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If you’re not currently nursing, you probably know someone who is or shortly will be! They make great baby shower gifts! We are running a promotion where you can get any of our 3 piece gift sets (regular price $46) for only $5 + S&H.The code is "thanks".

Go to www.uddercovers.com , click on "Shop Now", scroll down to the gift sets, select the one you would like and you will automatically be repositioned to the center of the page where you can enter in the promo code! Type in thanks and it will bring your product total to $5!

We are not sure how long this promotion can last. You can use the code more than once - you just have to open a new browser/window to do so.This promotion gives you 1 giftset for $5 + S&H! This promotion code is valid once per transaction, so you can order as many times as you would like!

Meal Plan Monday!

2010-01-11T12:25:00.004-06:00

DH & I both work , so we only plan for dinner and then figure out as we go on the weekend.
Enjoy!

Sunday, January 10, 2010 potato soup
Monday, January 11, 2010 Pot Roast (Crock Pot)
Tuesday, January 12, 2010 Ham Steak, sw potato fries, pineapple
Wednesday, January 13, 2010 chili, baked potato
Thursday, January 14, 2010 pancakes applesauce
Friday, January 15, 2010 Beef Turnovers Mac & Chz
Saturday, January 16, 2010 Lasagna garlic bread

29...Again

2010-01-11T09:28:00.002-06:00

So today is my birthday.
Do you remember when you were a kid and you thought 30 was OLD???
So maybe its not that old, but I am not quite ready to claim it yet.
So I can just be 29 again this year.

I have accomplished alot in 29+1 years.
I have made some amazing friends. 3 of whom I went to highschool with and
I have graduated both high school and college, with plans to go back for my master's this year.
I have picked the most wonderful man in the world to marry. He is my best friend and he completes me in every way that matters. He is strong where I am weak, he is silent when I am running off at the mouth, he is patient where I am impulsive.
I have a beautiful son, who turns 3 in April and he constantly amazes and amuses me.
I have another son on the way, and I know he will bring even more joy to our lives.
I have an incredible family. We may be small in number, but we are constant. I have received unending support from my parents, my sister and my brother. They are fantastic and I am so blessed to have them.

So I am going to enjoy today and see it for the positive aspects.

Its time to GO!

2009-12-31T13:02:00.001-06:00

I know its New Years, a time of resolutions, and plans, and promises...
Did you overhear the conversation that I just had with both my sister & my mother?
Its time to clean house! I am only focusing on one room, but its a DOOZY!
My master bedroom is getting cleared out tomorrow.
If it doesnt fit (and since I am 16wks pregnant thats alot) its gone.
If I havent used it since we moved into the house 15 months ago, its gone.
If my clothes-horse husband hasn't worn it since we moved in, its gone.
And I have to move the crib in so my almost 3 yr old can have a bedroom all to himself.
I am just tired of all the stuff.
I may make a move towards the guest room later this weekend...we will see.
Good luck on your ventures this New Years.
I hope 2010 brings the best for you and yours!

I have a good Husband

2009-12-29T13:01:00.002-06:00
There are times when you just want some Chocolate.....YKWIM?
So today while I was slaving away at work, I sent my DH a text asking what his lunch plans were. He was of course, instantly suspicious. I told him that he would be the most wonderful man on earth if he could manage to drop by with a chocolate milkshake.....and he did!

Its the little things in life that make you most happy, small acts like bringing your preggo wife a chocolate milkshake to get her thru to the end of the day.

"Free Holiday Music at Amazon"

2009-12-15T12:27:00.000-06:00
"Free Holiday Music at Amazonfrom Moneywise Moms by Gina @ MoneywiseMoms
Need some new holiday music to spice up your season? Head over to the 25 Days of Free page at Amazon to see which holiday song is FREE today. You can also download the X5 Classical Christmas Sampler and Sampler Claus absolutely FREE. You can download these MP3s and add them to iTunes or whatever program you're using. Last year, I burned all the holiday songs onto one CD and we're already playing it this season. A compilation CD along with something from your kitchen would make a very frugal little gifty!"

Hmm..new things happening at our house

2009-10-16T09:33:00.002-05:00
So I started this blog to chronicle the life of my sweet Bailey...and I have been BAD BAD BAD at keeping up with it.

But I have reason to start anew...
My sweet Bailey is going to be a BIG brother this summer! June 2010

So here is a quick update...
How Far along: 5w 3d
Weight Gain/Loss: none
Stretch Marks...yep, but they are from the first go round
Sleep: Still uninterrupted
Best Moment this week: Sunday we told my family, such a great moment!
Movement: still too early
Food Cravings: none
Gender: still too soon
Labor Signs: Ha! #2 will be a planned c-sec thanks to Bailey's stubborn streak:)

We have an appt on tuesday 10/20 to see the Dr & get an us, so I will be updating with pictures.

So its too soon to start redecorating...Isn't it? I think I want to go ahead & move the crib into my room so Bailey can claim his space completely...we will see

Update on things in my world

2009-05-11T19:07:00.000-05:00
Hello world.
I just wanted to update on things in my world. After today it will be awhile before I have a chance to get back on here.
Trip...Our resortFriday we will head to Atlanta and catch a Braves game, spend the night there, and leave for Belize at 7am EST. We return Saturday 5-23.Ok, So Randy and I decided to make sure that we were getting the most bang for our buck and we decided on this amazing resort, the Xaman Ek. They are running a great special (buy 5 nights, get 2 free) so that is saving some cash & the wedding planner/justice of the peace was also running a special ($300 discount) which basically covers the complete cost of the photographer. Our PhotographerPlus of course the amazing deal we got on the plane tickets....
I am so excited to go! I know we will have an amazing time, and see some amazing sights. I am so sad that we are going to leave Bailey for a whole week. He will be with my parents, he will be well loved, and he just loves them, so I am not "worried" But I have never been away from him this long and I am going to miss him so much. That is the only cloud on my horizon.
Wedding...Friday, May 22nd Randy And I will FINALLY get married. :)
I went shopping again for my wedding dress. I really loved the floral one, but I just had my heart set on a white/ivory dress. So my friend Mary Ann played hookey from school (she is a kindergarten teacher) and a few weeks ago we went to Birmingham where there was a much bigger selection. We found my dress....for $15! Not kidding. It actually was at Belks, its strapless, white, and made of matte jersey, so no worries of wrinkling during travel! It was on sale, then I had a gift certificate, so my actual out of pocket was only $15. Too cool! Found some pretty silver flip flops, and now I just need a necklace to pull it all together. Randy suggested that we get something at the market in Belize so it will be more meaningful and memorable. So that is the plan, and I will bring my pearls just in case I dont find anything that I like. Job...I had a few interviews last week, so we will pray that God's will be done in the job situation. I miss working, but I would be OK staying home at this point. I just miss all the people. I have another interview today, its actually the second one at this office, but I think this is for a different position. They called me in, so that has to be positive.
Bailey...Wow, I have a 2 year old. How is that possible? Didnt I just have him yesterday. This amazing little creature that lives with me is 36" tall and weighs in at a hefty 33 pounds. He is perfectly healthy and doing well in all areas of development. We are semi potty training, right now he thinks its a big game, its so funny. His favorite things are all things that GO. Think Construction (digger, bulldozer), Trains, Trucks. He loves books, and we read ALOT! At the moment his favorite phrase is "Oh No!" and it just cracks me up. He will repeat it over and over. His other favorite word is elephant, (well e TANT) and he even does an elephant walk..again, he cracks me up.
Randy...YAY he finished this semester and passed all his classes YAY YAY YAY. I am so glad that semester is over with! Things are good at work, and he has decided that he needs a new truck. So he is truck/suv shopping. Whatever makes him happy. He did great for Mothers day. Got me a card that made me cry, a gift certificate to a local spa for hair, nails, and massage, and a slice of cookie cake ( I LOVE that stuff!)
He did remember that I need a wedding ring, and picked that up yesterday. I go today to have it sized so it will be ready for the trip.
I think I have covered all the bases. Now I have to go make the lawnmower work so I can cut grass before I get all cleaned up for my interview.
Love Kristen

Christmas 2008 aka The Trip on the Train of TERROR

2008-12-08T19:12:00.001-06:00
Ok...so we all know and love the movie A Christmas Story. Well we had our own little " Ralphie" moment this weekend at the Mall.
Last year when we took Bailey to see Santa, he was not impressed, but not worried either. This year he was great in the line (not that long, we got there Friday night, right as he was getting started). Pointing to all the trees, saying "tree" and "light" and "hot" (because yes, lights are hot :)
We get to Santa and he just stares at him. We put him in Santa's lap and he freezes up and looks at Santa and gets this terrified look on his face. That was the best pic they got before he started squirming and trying to get down.
So we didnt get the pic, it just wasnt that good, and as we were leaving, he saw the little train that they have set up. Oh he loved that! He watched it go and pointed and was just real impressed. So we went and got in line for that, again, no line since it was early. When the train stopped and everyone unloaded, he walked right up to and into the first little compartment. He was just jabbering away, looking all over, having a great time. I climbed into the tiny space with him and then the "Conductor" shut the door. Oh No. He stomped his little feet and tried to open the door. Well it locks from the outside for safety, so we were trapped! The train started out, and he whined for a moment, then we had fill out screams and crying, and tantrum. This was just no fun and he was not enjoying himself AT ALL!
We came around the track and Randy misinterpreted my waves for them to stop as waves of "Hi" and we went around again. There was no calming him down, he was not a happy camper. I had him ring the bell, I pointed out trees, pointed out all the happy people walking by in the mall. Alas, it was to no avail.
When we neared the starting point, I think Randy realized that it was time for the ride to stop (THANK GOD!) he had the Conductor stop the train and we off-loaded in a hurry! He was fine after that. All was well. The rest of the weekend was great.
I think we will try again with a new santa this week, see if I can trick him into a smile :)
Merry Christmas!
~Kristen

Update on the Mommy Thing

2008-05-15T19:17:00.000-05:00
So, I am getting the hang of this Mommy thing. Its scary and exciting, and I find myself thinking about my mom alot. I wonder if this is something that she did or felt.
I am only slightly paraniod, I watch him sleep sometimes to make sure that his little chest rises and falls with each peaceful breath.
We have mastered bath time & he just loves it. He likes the shower too, although they should include on the instruction manual that babies are slippery when wet
I am amazed at how much laundry Bailey generates. I guess if he stopped peeing on himself during diaper changes that would be a few less outfilts a day. (I am still not great at that, the sprinkler effect will get you every time!)
We have also discovered that Bailey does not like direct sunlight...so for my little vampire baby we purchased some eyewear. He is so darn cute with these on!
I think he has hit another growth spurt, because he is eating like there is no tomorrow, I am not making this up, we are eating every 1-3 hours. Fun times! But he gets the greatest look on his face when he is full and about to go to sleep. Makes all the fussiness worth it.
We are sleeping pretty good at night, he is up at 11, 2, 5 & 7 to eat & change diapers. The good thing is that I can now sleep almost on demand, give me 3 minutes & I am out cold!
Thank you for all the Mother's day wishes. It was great. And thank you too for all the encouraging words, there are times when I REALLY need them

Are you KIDDING me???

2007-08-16T19:13:00.000-05:00
So I am a little ticked.
I was called into my bosses office this morning because there is someone in my office who is "offended" that I pump my breastmilk at work. They also dont like the fact that I store my milk in the office fridge.
Good news...my boss completely backs me up. I am not in trouble or anything like that. He just wanted to let me know that this had happened.
I guess the bad news is that I got my feelings hurt over all this. Who is this person?? What the HECK??
First off, its not like I make a scene about what I am doing. I have a little bag that I put in the fridge & I add bottles to it throughout the day. I go into an office that is not being used, close and lock the door, and then come out about 10-12 minutes later and that is that. It is not a production.
Today I felt like running thru the office sreaming "I am going to milk the udders" I restrained myself....barely.
I of course sent an email to those I knew would understand my plight...and they came thru with all kinds of positive comments. I needed that today. This mystery person (or should I say coward, since they didnt have the balls to face me themself) tried to steal my joy. I think that pisses me off more than anything. They couldnt find fault with my work, so they picked on this thing that is so precious to me.
So that was my day. I am still a little steamed, but this too will pass. It may pass a little more quickly after I make a trip to HR to express my displeasure and rock the boat a little.

My best to you all.

Just out of the hospital...again

2007-06-27T19:15:00.000-05:00
So have you missed me??
I have been in the hospital since Friday morning. Who knew that a wierd side effect of the hormonal changes of pregnancy could cause gall stones? I didnt. So those pains in the middle of the night that have been keeping me up and Randy has told me to go to the hospital for...those werent just stomach cramps, or gas pains..they were gall stones. And one of them escaped from my gall bladder and became lodged in my bile duct. So instead of one procedure to just remove the gall bladder, they had to put me to sleep twice. Once for an ERCP (basically they sent a camera and tweezers down my throat, through my stomach to my intestines to remove the pea sized impacted stone that was preventing fluides from gettin to my liver which in turn made me jaundiced (and yes I did turn yellow)). The second time they lazered my gall bladder and removed it from a whole they put in my belly button. There is a really fancy mane for it, but I am too tired to go find it.

So I have not been ignoring you...I have been in a hospital bed on an IV and an all liquid diet being poked and prodded by all kinds of medical staff.
Poor Randy...he had the task of being full time daddy just dropped on him. He just didnt know all the crazy places that I put the stuff for Bailey, and instead of calling to wake me up and ask, he just forged on ahead like a trooper! I think he has met his dirty diaper quota for the month by now. (Especially since we had to take Bailey off breastmilk while I was medicated and the formula poops are HORRIBLE) I go back to nursing tomorrow, I really missed that bonding time with my chunky little man.
We sent poor Jared to visit his grandparents.....I think he might have rather stayed in the hospital with his dad and me :)
I think that is it. Hope everyone else had a more pleasent week. I am back to normal...just a little sore.

I have an innie!

2007-05-05T08:25:00.000-05:00
Today while Mom was changing my diaper, the remains of my umbilical cord fell off. I have an "innie" belly button. Mom says its the best looking belly button she has ever seen.

I'm a Mommy!

2007-04-23T19:16:00.000-05:00
I'm a Mommy!
So wednesday morning at 813am we delivered a beautiful baby boy.
Mr Bailey Jackson arrived weighing 8 lbs 8 oz, 20" long and perfectly healthy. I think he has my nose, and his dad's ears. I cant say for sure who he looks like, but he is perfect and beautiful and healthy, which is all that really matters.
The procedure was not bad at all. I had great Dr's and Nurses and hospital staff who made sure that I was comfortable and taken care of. I am still a little sore, but that is to be expected.
Randy was great. I was a bundle of nerves that morning and he kept my spirits up, and helped me focus on other things so I wouldn't stress too much about the surgery.
I am uploading pics so you can see for yourself just how beautiful and precious my little one is. I would write more, but you see, I have been up ALL night with my spoiled little man, and since Dad is watching him, I get to go back to bed for a few hours.

My Arrival

2007-04-18T08:13:00.000-05:00

I was delivered this morning at 813 am weighing 8 lbs, 8 oz and measuring 20" long.

I came out fussing, its much colder out here than in mom' s belly. And those nurses wasted no time wiping me down and cleaning me up before handing me off to dad. Mom was still being worked on, so dad and I went to the nursery for my bath.
That last picture is me, mom & dad in the recovery room after I got all cleaned up.
Mom cried and counted my fingers and toes, dad teared up a little then took turns escorting family into the recovery room so they could love on me and pose for pictures. (there was no hospital room available at the time so we just hung out in the recovery room.)

We are Scheduled

2007-04-09T17:05:00.000-05:00
We went to the Dr today, I am still being a little stinker and I have not flipped or moved. So I am still breech. The Dr went ahead and scheduled my C Section for Wednesday, April 18th. I should arrive shortly after 7:30am.
Be on the lookout!

Update on my arrival

2007-04-05T09:56:00.000-05:00
So Mom is on Bedrest until our next dr appt on monday. They are worried about her increasing blood pressure. Other than that she is A-OK.
I am fine, we did an ultrasound and I am at least 7 lbs, and probably over 18-20". I am also completely breech. So we are very likely looking at a C Section sometime in the next 7-10 days. A little scary, but hey...it beats labor :)
Mom is trying not to worry or stress, I just have to get her used to the fact that I am a hard headed child who wants things done HIS way, not the normal way. So we just wait and see and we will know more on monday.

Feet

2007-03-13T19:21:00.000-05:00
So...today was the long awaited 4D Ultrasound....you know, the way cool one where you can see the actual features of the child...rather than the black & white blur that makes them look like little aliens.
All day I had an active little boy in my belly. He kicked, punched, rolled around. Then...at 3pm...after I had a "talk" with him in the car....He decided to take a nap.
Yes...but not just any nap. My child has decided that he is going to show who is in charge while in utero. That little stinker put his face against my spine and refused to show us anything but his rump.
So the pic of the day....his big feet. You know this is my child for sure because my baby has some big ol' feet! LOL
We get a "do-over" to try to see if my wayward child will behave himself and pose for the camera. I will let you know how that goes....
But never let it be said that my child is not a determined, stubborn, little stinker...I guess he takes after his momma.

Just STOP!

2007-03-13T19:20:00.000-05:00
OK, so what gives?
I am not sure when it happened, but I have come to the descision that there are some comments that you just shouldnt make to a pregnant person.
Things along the lines of "Wow, you look like you are about to pop!"
What are you thinking??? What if I was just overweight, not pregnant...would that statement be anyway near ok??? HELL NO~!
Or " Wow, you must be ready to go any day now." When I gently comment that no, I have another 6 weeks to go, the apropriate reply is NOT "Wow, that is one BIG baby"
So I am taking a vow. I will NEVER comment on the size of someone's pregnant belly again. I might smile and ask how far along..(yes, that is an OK question) or ask if they are getting excited about the upcoming event, but NEVER EVER EVER will I EVER comment on size. I dont even see how you could say that you were being polite by asking something like that...unless it is a dear friend or family member...its none of your damn business how much weight that person has gained, or how she is carrying, or how far along she is.

Sorry....I know if you have been pregnant or had preggo friends, you have heard these comments before. I just cant believe some of the crap complete strangers have been saying to me!

Shower for Mom and Me

2007-03-03T14:00:00.000-06:00

So Aunt Katie, Nana, and mom's friend Wanda threw a shower for me and mom on March 3rd. What a great time! There were lots of people and CAKE!!! (Mom had 2 pieces!) The ladies played some silly games, ate some yummy food and then opened presents. I got all kinds of great stuff! You should see my closet and dresser, they are full!

Look at this great outfit that my Grandma Dale & Papa Bop got me. There is a baseball on the butt!

4-D Ultrasounds are the Coolest!

2007-02-28T20:25:00.000-06:00

So, I am 32 weeks new, and today mom and dad went to the Dr and did a 4D ultrasound to see how good looking I am. Aren't I a cutie!?!? You can see my lips, nose. eyes, chin and even my little fingers. I sure do like sucking on those fingers. The nurse at the Dr's office poked mom's belly to make me move my hands out of my mouth so she could get the good shots of my face. She just doesn't know how good they taste :)

What is in a name?

2007-01-03T19:22:00.000-06:00
Ok...Update...We have a name.
Bailey Jackson. I want to call him Jack, Randy wants to call him Bailey. Under NO Circumstances is he to be called BJ....
The last name is the next consideration, I am thinking I will just hyphen. That way everybody & nobody is happy. Devine-Cunningham doesn't sound too bad does it? Yes it is a mouthful, but hopefully we will have it "Official" before the little guys starts school.
I have registered at Target, Walmart, and Babies R Us. I think that should cover most of our family and friends who live all over.
I am going to try to breast feed. Its just too good for the baby not to at least give it a shot.
Another thought I have had is that I am going to give cloth diapers, there are lots of benefits, and I think they outweigh the negative aspects. Please note..I said "try" this means that if its more trouble than its worth, Pampers it is! Also I am not sure that his day care will allow the cloth, so he may be part time in disposable anyway.
We did get him enrolled in Day Care this week. Early? YES! I have been told by so many people about waiting lists that I freaked and went ahead and signed him up.
Hmm...Did I answer all the questions I have gotten?
Hope you are well. I will talk to you soon!

Its a....

2006-11-23T19:22:00.000-06:00
BOY

How did that happen? I specifically remember requesting a girl...Oh well. I have new pics of all the Ultrasounds uploaded...look close and you can see his "manhood".
We went to the Dr yesterday. He is 8 ounces, and the perfect size for his age. He has a very strong heartbeat, and thanks to the Starbucks Cafe Mocha that I had yesterday morning (YUM first coffee since AUGUST) that little boy was flipping and moving and waving and more than happy to show us his goodies.
We did make the first home video...I am working on moving that to the comp so I can post it here as well.

I'm Moody...

2006-11-14T19:24:00.000-06:00
So its the holidays already...Can you believe it?
I can't believe that the yr is almost over, so many incredible things have happened.
Hmm...lets see.
January, turned the big 26 (not too impressed) I quit smoking...WOW
February, Wrecked my car...that was a first, hit from the rear at 60mph! Totaled my Stratus, but I am so thankful because Randy and I were well and whole after we got over that whole whiplash nightmare.
March, Went to TX all by myself! Got to see my friend Rose's newborn baby (Abigail Rose) who is of course precious and beautiful. Got to visit my great Aunt & Great Grandmother while I was there. & Bought a new car when I got home since the other was totaled.
April, hmm, went to Destin with the boys, that was fun.
May, I think I just worked, ate & slept in May.
June, The boys & I went to Orlando for a week. We had the best time! It was my first trip to see the mouse!
July, Girls trip to the beach! I met some really great girls & worked on my freckles
August, I started the gym..lost a few lbs & inches....then found out that I was pregnant. How the heck did that happen?!?!
September, Planning for the NYC trip in earnest! The emails flew between me, Miranda, Ashley & Valerie. I was also working some heavy OT to cover all that play money.
October, Hmm...the whole month was anticlimactic..all I could think was I cant wait for NYC! We had the best time, you should see all the pics!(and you can if you go to Miranda's page LOL)
Now its November. I am 17 wks prenant, we find out the sex next week. Rose and Cory fly in from TX to visit his family & will make some time for us. I look forward to seeing their familiar faces! (And my sweet little chubby cheeked Abby)
December is on the way, with all the fun it will bring. The family, the food, the Christmas greetings & silly emails. Its hard to be sad when there is so much to be thankful for. So I will settle for Moody. I am told that we hormonal pregnant women can get away with it :)
Best wishes to you all, Talk to you soon !
Oh...I am doing Christmas cards after Thanksgiving, send me your address :)

8 Years!

2006-05-15T19:25:00.000-05:00
OK, So 8 yrs ago tonight I graduated from High School.
5-15-98, I counted down the days from the first day of my Senior Year.
We had such an incredible year together, there were a few highlights:
*Taping Mary Ann to the Gym Floor
*Breakfast at Hardees or McDonalds every Friday morning instead of homeroom
*Prank War of the Sexes.....this was the icing, all the sneaking & spying & silly things, there were cars filled with crickets, styrafoam peanuts, spiderwebbed with Yarn, oreo cookies lined on all the windows of the car & the killer Vasoline on the wondshield....I think everyone's car got shoe polished at one time or another. We broke into houses ( with the parents permission, not the fellow students) we robbed the boys of their shoes & broke up the no girls allowed poker party.
There were 14 of us at the beginning of the yr & 12 at the end (2 got expelled for streaking thru the gym) I think that is why we were so close.
I had so many plans, and visions of what would happen after graduation, some of those things have come to pass, not all were what I expected.
Do we really know anything at 18? I know so much more than I thought I did. But the same things are still important in my life. Family, Friends, Priorities ( like work!) So I am the same person, Just older, wiser, less innocent, more sarcastic. I still think my Daddy is the most wonderful man in the world & I still call my Mom when I need help thinking something thru, she still gives great advice. I am closer to my sister than I was & I have more friends.
So All in All....It sucks that we have to age, but we dont have to grow up until we are ready....and I am not!

MVA

2006-02-19T19:26:00.001-06:00

So yesterday Randy andI were heading down Taylor Rd and he stopped at a redlight...next thing we knew there was this horrible noise and we were being shoved across the road (sounded and felt like we were being dragged, but Randy still had his foot on the brakes).
Were hit from behind by a college student talking on the phone, not paying attention to the traffic around her, we were all wearing seat belts...thank God...because any one of us could have gone thru the windshield. Randy & I were doubly blessed because we were not caught by any cross traffic as we were propelled thru the 4 lane intersection.
Randy hurt his back, I hurt my neck. And the girl broke her ankle very badly.
Chk out the pics....you will see why I am so calm about all this...it could have been much worse.

~Kristen